TAA121 Sex and Love Addiction

Sex and love addictionnnWe want so desperately to be loved, appreciated, acknowledged, told we are prettynSubconscious beliefsnWe are worth somethingnWe matternWe are enoughnnThere’s nothing wrong with enjoying sexy times for the record. Be safe, communicate, have fun ladies and gents.nBut what I’m talking about is when we feel like we NEED someone to look at us, fuck us, adore us to be worth something. That is giving away all of our power to someone who didn’t even ask for it. Then we feel like they have power over us to manipulate us, like a puppet.nnThis is not the case.nBut let’s look at why we got there.nWe want the things:nLovenAffectionnAdmirationnFeel goodnFeel valuablenFeel worthynnWhen our partner doesn’t give us those things in the way we want we may be resentful, we may be overall irritated with them, we may seek it in other partnersnPeople can be powerful addictionsnnSometimes it’s a good idea to create some space and make sure your intentions are correct.nAre you seeking things in this person you can’t already create in yourself? The relationship will be parasitic then.nnMy husband and I sought out each other to create different things:nI needed safetynnHe needed a voice and expressionnnTogether we are working on creating those things from within us. That took me becoming Woke. And also a therapist.nBy me creating safety within me, I’m able to take risks in life, and love people deeper. I discovered I’m polyamorous and I can have multiple loving meaningful relationships where everyone grows and communicates.nnCheck in with yourselfnSee how you feelnWhat do you neednHow can you give it to yourselfnAllow yourself love and appreciationnCreate time for yourself to do regular practices

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